Thinking About

Thinking tonight about...

All the projects I need to get done while Brad is home from work this week!

Letters and photos to Matthew's birthmother and foster family

Send Nathan's care package (at long last!)

Organize and order photos for our family photo album...from last March onward. Yikes!

Thinking about my little boy across the world, and smiling as I think about when he will be here with us. Tomorrow's mission...find matching pajamas for Matthew and Nathan to cheer myself up and remind myself that there will be an end to this waiting and one day he will be in my arms forever.

Thinking about this little boy...

...and how much I love him! It seems like it was so long ago that I was in that agonizing wait for him to be in my arms. I am so thankful that wait is behind me and every single day I get to wake up to this smile!

Thinking tonight about how I've not kept up with running goals for the last week and how I'm going to get back to it. Sigh.

Thinking about the grocery list that needs to be made and all the new yummy meals we are going to try from my new cook book (well, I hope they'll be yummy!).

Thinking about the many blessings and challenges this year has brought, and wondering what 2011 will hold for us.

The Happiest Christmas Eve

Being with the ones I love, laughter, hugs, birthday presents, home with my sisters and my Mom and Dad and my boys, the traditional watching of "A Christmas Story", hearing my Dad laughing really loud during the movie, organizing presents under the tree and anticipating the joy of seeing everyone open them tomorrow...it's been a wonderful, happy day and I am so thankful for family, time to be together, and the most precious gift of Jesus come to earth for us.

Merry Christmas!

Thank You, Internet - You Fixed My Knee!

*Warning - to all my non-running friends, this will probably be a very boring post!  Feel free to skip this one and return when pictures of the adorable baby appear once again :) *

Well, as we know, the internet has lots of information that can help us (and it's all true, right?!?!).  I am very excited because I found something very useful on the internet last week.  I *think* I might have found a solution to my knee pain!!!  I'm kind of nervous to even say that, as though I might jinx myself by saying it and all of a sudden it will stop working!  But so far it's been a great solution.  What is it, you ask?

A rolling pin!

I have been having IT band pain for almost 2 years!  When I would run, it would start up after only a few minutes and would get to be really painful.  If I was running often, it got to where it hurt all the time, even if I was just lying on the couch.  I tried everything I could think of.  I did stretches, iced it, saw a sports doctor, did more stretches, had a cortisone shot, more ice...but it always came back as soon as I started running consistently.  It was really discouraging since I love running so much (it is still strange to hear myself say that!).

The iliotibial band runs along the outside of your leg from your hip to your knee...to be honest I don't know that much about it, but I know it was hurting a LOT!  I tried doing more research about it and found a treatment that kept appearing in running articles - using a foam roller.  It sounded great, but I don't have a foam roller.  Then I read somewhere that you can just use a rolling pin and I knew I was onto something!  I had two rolling pins anyway, and let's face it, it's not like either of them had been used that often.  So one of them has now been designated as my leg roller (Brad declared that he would be pretty grossed out if he ever saw me using it on food after it's massaged my leg!).  Basically I have been using it several times a day and rolling it on the outside of my legs.  I'm hoping to get some foam to put around it so that I can do the knee area better.  Yesterday I ran 2 miles and my knee did not hurt AT ALL!  I am so thankful to have found something that seems to be helping!

Smiles in the Snow

For those of you who were around last winter (or around the blog at least!) you may remember Matthew's reaction to snow:

Seriously, is that totally sad or what?  I think our trip outside lasted about a minute...and he hated everything about snow!  I was a little nervous about how he'd do this year but when it finally started snowing, he was very interested...from inside at least!  So we decided to bundle him up and all of us (Brad, me, Matthew, my sisters, and Daisie) headed outside for some winter fun.  We knew Daisie would be excited (and she was) and we were THRILLED that Matthew loved it too :)

He kept signing and saying "more" as emphatically as he could every time Brad stopped pulling the sled!  Poor Brad was exhausted so my sisters each took turns (I was working the camera thank goodness!).  We finally had to go inside because it was pretty cold, but from then on whenever we got close to the back door Matthew would point and say "MORE!" with a big smile.  Good news, Matthew...there will be plenty more snow for us to play in!

Happy Day

Today has been one of those all around great days. I had a visit from a sweet friend and her adorable baby boy, who just joined their family a couple of months ago. He is 14 months old and is absolutely precious, and next to him Matthew seemed SO big!

Another friend of mine stopped by today with a great gift - a coupon to join a local gym for $1 :) I had such good intentions about running outside this winter...and then it snowed. I don't really mind the snow or the cold, but I can't deal with the ice. I am going to the gym tomorrow morning and hopefully I can get in a good run. I have my eye on a 5k race on January 1st but we'll have to see...my goal is to be able to run that distance by then even if I don't run the race.

Tonight Brad took me on a date! His parents watched Matthew and we went out for dinner. It was delightful! And I had a coupon!! Do you see a theme today?!?

When we came home, we put Matthew to bed and he only got out TWICE! That is a big improvement from last Sunday's record -NINETEEN times!!!!! Seriously hoping that being consistent is going to start paying off soon.

And as if the day wasn't already good enough...I was checking my email a few minutes ago before going to bed and suddenly noticed an email from our placement agency. New pictures of Nathan!!! What an unexpected surprise and blessing! Oh, the cuteness!

I'm going to bed happy :)

When it Sneaks Up on Me

It comes over me at the most unexpected times.  The other day in a store I saw a display of Christmas ornaments - little snowmen with names at the bottom.  Matthew has one with his name on it that is hanging on our tree right now.  I wandered over to the display to find Nathan's name...but I suddenly found I couldn't see through the tears that filled my eyes.  

I want my boy home.

For the most part I think I'm doing pretty well with the waiting this time...but the ache is always there, and comes out now and then in a sigh as I watch Matthew in the tub and wonder what it will be like to have two little boys playing in the tub, or a teary smile when I see a mom with two little boys.  I never would have believed before adopting that you could miss someone you have never met.

Every day we pray for our Nathan, that he will grow big and strong, that he will stay healthy and that somehow his little heart will be prepared for what is to come.  And we pray with all our hearts that our child (and so many others who are waiting) will be able to come home much sooner than anticipated.

While we're waiting, we have been gathering items to send to Nathan in a care package.  We are sending him a shirt, a toy, a teether, a monkey lovey, a photo album, a pair of socks, and a bib.  We are also sending his foster mother a scarf.  Matthew helped me pick some of them out (of course we had to send a train bib!) and once I print out pictures for the little picture of our family to put in the album, it will be all ready to go!

I love knowing that soon these things that we picked out for Nathan will be in Korea with him!  It helps me feel a little connected to him.  If only I could climb into the package and go to Korea too... :)

We Love Our Weekends

Weekends are just the best.  We love having Brad home and it is so much fun just to be together.  Saturdays are so relaxing and every week I am reminded what a wonderful guy I am married to when he lets me sleep in so that he can spend some time alone with Matthew.  They play in the living room, watch Matthew's favorite cartoons, and sometimes head out to the *manly* home hardware stores together :)

This weekend has been so relaxing.  Today we hung around the house for the morning, and after Matthew's nap we headed to the mall and just walked for an hour and a half!  We love the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, the Christmas music playing, and being out of the house.  We didn't buy a single thing!

I also got to fit in a run today and I was so happy because I ran 2 miles again and my knee did not hurt at all!  I ran on Monday, did a workout video yesterday, and ran today so that means I met my goal for the week.  I'm looking forward to this week and hoping I can stay on track!

Cake and a Christmas Tree

On Saturday we had a birthday celebration for Matthew.  We kept it kind of small with just family and had a fun time eating dinner, cake, and opening presents.  I was determined to make a special cake for Matthew even though (as you may have noticed) cooking is just not my thing.  I must admit I felt pretty proud of my creation - free of egg, milk, and nuts...and pretty darn tasty if I do say so myself!

I think that Matthew's cousin, Ben, enjoyed it!  Either that or he was trying to avoid getting any in his mouth...

On Sunday we decided it was time to go and get a Christmas tree.  Last year Matthew was sick and we were still dead tired from the whole becoming new parents thing so we just put up our fake tree.  This year we bundled up and headed out to cut one down ourselves!

Matthew's favorite part (although you can't tell it from this picture!) was riding on the wagon.  He was so excited yesterday morning when he woke up, and as we came out to the living room he kept saying, "Tree! Tree! Tree!".  You should have seen his face when I turned the lights on...priceless!  It's so fun having a little one around during the Christmas season!

Some Things Are Getting Easier

Over the last few weeks we have been stepping into new territory - the toddler years.  I refuse to say we are entering the "terrible two's" because I choose to believe that this year will be terrific and not terrible.  Please don't burst my bubble by telling me otherwise :)

As we've faced many new challenges lately, I've found it easy to become worn down and overwhelmed with this whole parenting thing.  I just really, really don't want to screw it up, and sometimes that is hard since I have no clue how to handle things!  The last few days, though, I've been reminded that although there have been new challenges as Matthew has grown, there have also been many things that are getting easier.

For example...

• Eating is way easier these days.  Not only have we figured out how to manage his food allergies (and he's got the smoothest, most eczema-free skin I've ever seen by the way!!!) but now that he can feed himself I actually get to eat!  With both my hands!  That is a blessing and even though it's been that way for a while, sometimes it's good to remember how much work meals used to be.

• Communication:  This is one that could be placed on the "easier" and "harder" list right now.  Matthew is talking a ton and most of the time we can figure out what he wants/needs, which helps a lot.  On the other hand, his lack of ability to communicate is often what causes the meltdowns.  Still, hearing him talk and learn new words has been so amazing, and lately he has been getting so expressive.  This is him telling me that his food was "hot" yesterday (although it wasn't...we haven't mastered "warm" yet!).
  
  

• Trips out are so much easier now.  It used to take me so long to pack up and get ready.  Now we are pros at getting out the door in no time flat!  It also helps that he can walk (this came in very handy today when I was carrying 13 library books!  I was glad to hold his hand instead of carrying 27 extra pounds!)

• Taking pictures: easier!  He loves to smile for the camera now :)
  
  

• Reading books - now that Matthew's attention span is getting longer we can actually read real stories!!!  Love this!
  

I'm sure every age has different challenges and different advantages.  I keep finding myself saying "Oh, this is my favorite age for sure!" to every age that Matthew is!  There are so many great things about each stage and that is the only thing that keeps me from being sad that my little boy is growing up (sniff, sniff).  

It's only been one day, but so far...two is for sure my favorite age!

Look Who's Two!

What to say about my very handsome

two-year-old?

Yesterday was Little Man's birthday!

Today I looked at him as we sat on the couch reading a book together and just shook my head in wonder.  How is it that I am so blessed?  Every day, every moment with my sweet boy is a gift...even the hard ones.  This last year has had its rough moments, but it has also been without a doubt the best year ever.  Matthew has grown from a squishy baby into a funny, charming, sweet little boy and it has been amazing to see the transformation.  I'm thinking that the year ahead is going to be one big adventure :)  Thank you, God, for the blessing of this little boy!

New

This month brought many new things along with it so I thought I'd share a few...

There have been many new things for us to experience with Matthew.  Most are wonderful...new words, new activities, new skills.  Some are, how shall we say, more on the challenging side.  One new development is that he is suddenly experiencing separation anxiety on a much bigger level than ever before.  Most of the time it happens if I leave, but it has now started being a problem at bedtime as well.  My heart hurts to hear him scream "Mama!" whenever I leave him (even if he's staying with Daddy!).  

He's also developed a wonderful new affection for us, though.  He has started giving the biggest hugs and tons and tons of kisses without us asking.  It is the best!

As he grows from a baby into a toddler, we are having our first real experiences with the challenges of parenting.  Little man recently learned the word "No!" and likes to use it frequently.  The smooth transition to a toddler bed was, unfortunately, fairly short lived, and after a few weeks with no issues we have suddenly found ourselves battling every night to get him to go to bed and stay in bed.  I hate the parenting challenges that mess with sleep...they are not cool!

Thankfully, during the day this little guy is happy as can be for the most part.  We are so blessed to have Matthew as our child and I just love seeing him grow!  He turns 2 on Thursday...but I'm not ready to talk about that yet!

Some new pictures from Thanksgiving.  Matthew had a blast playing with his Uncle Josh and all his cousins.   Josh had Matthew laughing so hard - I just sat and watched and enjoyed the sounds of these little ones having so much fun.

We also spent some time this weekend at my parent's house.  Matthew found a new love - candy canes are pretty fabulous!

The traditional trip to get the Christmas tree with my family was a lot of fun but super cold - can you see Matthew?  He's that bundle wrapped up in a blanket.  

One more new thing for this month - at the beginning of the month I set a running goal for myself (be able to run 2 miles by the end of the month) and yesterday I was able to meet that goal!  I was so happy and felt so good, except for the knee pain I am still battling.  So annoying.  My goal for December is to run twice a week and do some form of exercise one other day a week (walking, work out at home).  

I really need to start posting more often so that I don't have so much to say each time!  Thanks for sticking with me :)

It's Been a While...

It's been a while since my last post, and I wish I could say it was because of something fabulous like I was on a trip to Hawaii or something, but unfortunately there were only two factors keeping me from blogging this last week - sickness, and the fact that the computer is all the way in the basement!  We have all been fighting something yucky for the past few days but I believe today I can finally say we've kicked it.

Thankfully, the last week hasn't been all bad.  Actually, it's been pretty great in many ways!  My parents came for a quick visit, I got to go to a lovely lunch with our adoption/foster care group at church, and best of all...we got a new video of our sweet Nathan!

I wanted to post about it, but truthfully the emotions in seeing his face just kind of floored me.  When we first put the video in I was smiling, and within 5 seconds I was just a teary mess :)  He is absolutely gorgeous, and to see him at 10 months old was very different than seeing him at 5 months old.  He is now sitting, able to stand while holding onto something, he was engaged and playing with toys and just smiling up a storm!  My heart ached to realize I have missed his first haircut, his first tooth, seeing him learn to sit up and crawl...there are so many firsts I will miss and I just hate that.  In my head I know that once he is here there will be many more firsts for us to experience with him, but right now I hate that I am missing out on even one more minute with him.  

We also got some new pictures of him, and every time I see them I just can't stop smiling.  Every day that passes brings me one day closer to him, and yet the closer I get to having him in my arms the harder it seems to be!  

Matthew loves to watch his little brother and I'm so glad we have these videos and pictures.  I don't think he has any idea what we're talking about when we say Nathan is going to come and live here :)  But I hope that they will be great friends.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving...and truly I have so much to be thankful for this year!

November

November is one of my favorite months of the year.  Did you know that it is National Adoption Month?  Until a few years ago, I didn't.  For me, November is a time to celebrate adoption, to share about adoption, and to remember our journey.

Five years ago this November we decided it was time...we were ready to start a family!

Four years ago this November my heart was breaking as a year had passed and we officially stepped into the world of infertility.  This was also the month that I started thinking about adoption seriously, and since it was National Adoption Month it seemed like everyone was talking about adoption all of a sudden.  I talked to Brad about it, but for him it wasn't time yet.

Three years ago this November was one of the most difficult times of my life, as our attempted infertility treatment had failed and we were left wondering where to go next.   But my amazing husband surprised me by announcing that he was ready to pursue adoption, and after that there was no looking back!

Two years ago this November we had completed our home study and we were waiting for a referral.  Oh, the agony of the wait!

One year ago this November I had my sweet Matthew in my arms at last!  My heart was so full...and I was so tired!

And this November...

Yep, this November is the best one on record!  I have the joy of being mommy to this precious boy and I am waiting to bring home my second son.  Adoption has changed my life, filled my heart, and taught me so much about love.  As I look back to where I was five years ago, I wish I could tell that Rachel, "Just hold on...it will be okay."  Actually, WAY better than okay!

Me and My Lame Blog Post

Hi there...this might be a lame one!  No pictures...but some great news!

Today I received our official acceptance papers in the mail from our placement agency :)  We had over 20 documents to sign and have notarized, but they are all back on the way to the agency tonight and we are SUPER close to being officially matched with Nathan!  I have had some weird emotions today.  Longing for him to be home...total fear and wondering how this will be...the almost two-year-old who had several tantrums today didn't help my confidence level!!!  It's strange that signing papers could make my heart ache more.

So now we wait...eight more months.

Oh, and my not so great news of the day - we had to sign a document saying that we realize it would be inappropriate for us to share Nathan's picture on a blog.  Until the adoption is finalized.  Holy smokes that is a long time from now.  So I am going to have to figure out how to stay interesting on here without pictures of cute little boys.  That may be difficult!

Onto something more cheerful!  I've taken up running again.  The same thing always happens when I've been away from it for a while.  I hear about friends/bloggy friends who are running, and I start to think, "Hmmmm".  Then I see people out running and I think, "I used to do that...I wonder if I could do that again?".  Then I read an article or a blog about running and I think, "I have got to go running RIGHT NOW!".  I went running 4 times last week, but just short ones.  It's amazing how long it takes me to build up endurance and how quickly I lose it.  I really wish it worked in reverse :)

What else...I have a new niece!  She was born yesterday and she is so adorable!

That's the news of the week.  

A Fun Day Out

Thank you all for your encouraging comments...they were so appreciated!

I had a lovely morning with Matthew, my sister Joanna, and some friends from church at my new favorite place...it is described as a children's museum but it is way more fun than the word "museum" implies :)  Only a short 20 minute drive from our house, I am not sure how we have missed this place until now, but I am feeling much more confident that we will manage to survive the long winter now that we have discovered it.

With large, open rooms, places for kids to climb and all kinds of toys that Matthew could not break, I was able to enjoy his exploration for once instead of trying to keep him reigned in.  You should have seen the look on his face when we suddenly came upon a great big train table!  With a breathless "Choo choo!" he raced to the table and with great concentration he began lining up the trains.  I thought for sure that would be it for the day, but after a while he was happy to move on to something else...for a while.  We returned to the train table many times!

Another favorite activity of the morning was pushing a big truck down a slide.  Sometimes I find it so funny to see which things really crack him up!

There were tunnels to crawl through and explore...

Musical instruments to be {loudly} played...

and a water table that was almost as much fun

as the train table.  Almost.

Having my sister Joanna along was so much fun!

She helped Matthew get ready for the water table...

I think maybe I need to buy him an apron like this for home

just because it's so cute!

There was so much more to explore and enjoy and we didn't even get to all the different play areas!  I am really looking forward to taking my little man there again soon!

Unknowns

As we are in this waiting period for Nathan to come home, I am thinking and learning a lot about the way I face unknowns.  Truth be told, I hate the unknown.  I don't like not knowing what we are going to face in the future - will it be easy when he comes home, or will his adjustment be very difficult?  Will our bonding with him happen quickly, or will it take a while?  How will Matthew adjust to everything?  Will I be okay with not sleeping again????

Most of these were questions I had before Matthew came home as well, but with Nathan there are other dynamics.  We are walking a new journey as we adopt him because we are facing some pretty big unknowns in the area of his medical condition.  We know that he was born with a condition called Microtia, that his ears are malformed, and that he has pretty significant hearing loss.  But until he gets here, we really don't know what we are dealing with as far his hearing.  He has had three BAER (brainstem auditory evoked response) tests, which is a way for them to test his hearing even while he is very young.  From the first test, his results showed severe hearing loss, while the other two (more recent) showed that he has more hearing and is in the moderate range.  We have seen from his video that he does hear sounds, but until he is here, we really don't know what is ahead for us as a family.  Sign language?  Hearing aids?  Surgery?  Possibly any (or all) of these.  

As we begin this new journey, it is easy for me to begin to fear.  It is easy to let thoughts of "can we handle this?" come into my head.  The more I think and pray about it, though, the more I realize that we are not walking this road alone.  God has led us to Nathan and we believe He will be faithful to guide us and help us every step of the way.

When we first started looking at the list of special needs, we tried to determine what we thought we could handle.  But how can you ever know what you can handle until you're right in the middle of it?  I would have told you that I couldn't handle life-threatening food allergies.  Or maybe that I just didn't want to handle them.  And yet here we are, and there is nothing I wouldn't do for my little boy, because he is my son.  I feel confident that when I have Nathan in my arms, because he is my son, I will do whatever I need to do to take care of him.  God will give me the strength, and with His help I will be able to handle it.

During the days when we were praying about moving forward with Nathan's adoption, I was reminded of two verses that were very familiar but so needed at the time:

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”

Joshua 1:9

"So do not fear, for I am with you; 
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
  I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

Isaiah 41:10

I used to say "I could never..." when I thought of adopting kids with special needs.  I really didn't know this is the path God would lead us, but I am learning that instead of saying "I could never..." to something to say "If God wants me to, He will give me what I need..."  I believe we may be in for some new challenges when Nathan comes home, but I also know that there will be joy and blessings I cannot even imagine once that little boy is in my life.  We are so thankful that God brought us to him!

My Men

Each and every day there are random moments with my guys that make me smile.  Such as when I looked over the other day and saw this.  Seeing them together always makes me pause with a thankful heart.  I am so blessed to have this man (and this little man!) in my life.  

And in case you are wondering...yes, that is a (cold) hot water bottle on Matthew's lap...apparently it helps him balance his plate!  

Just Because it's Funny

Let me introduce to you my sister, Joanna.  She is two years younger than me, but growing up we were always asked if we were twins.  For some reason I found this offensive at the time - I guess I thought it should be obvious that I was much older and more mature! HA!  

Joanna is sort of like my other half.  We finish each others sentences, and often find ourselves doing the exact same thing at the exact same time.  I am blessed with two sisters who are also my best friends :)

The other day, she showed up at my front door to hang out for a while...I opened the door and burst out laughing!  It was like looking in a mirror!

With no planning whatsoever, we managed to dress like identical twins :)  Love it!

What We Do

It's what we do on and off all day long...we play with trains!  Most of the time Matthew is content to play by himself, but he loves if Brad or I sits with him to play and talk about the trains.  It's been a great way to learn colors!  I never thought I would know all of the names of the trains from Thomas the Tank Engine :)  And the theme song (which is often requested at bedtime...apparently it's a soothing lullaby to Matthew!).  This boy loves his trains!

Life Has Slowed Down but the Adoption is Moving!

Life has just been rolling along around here!  I feel like October was the "easiest" month so far with Matthew - he is finally consistently sleeping through the night (major accomplishment as all our good progress kept getting interrupted by illness!) and it makes the days so much better for everyone!  We have been mostly sickness free for a while, and the break has been wonderful :)

We got good news two days ago when we heard that the Korean agency has granted permission for us to move forward with Nathan's adoption!  This is the first step towards us being officially matched with him and we were so happy to hear the news.  It is starting to become more real that we are actually on the road to bringing him home!  Next step is the formal application - we have it mostly completed and will be sending it off early next week.  Once the agency has that along with our completed home study, we will be able to sign the official acceptance!  Then we begin our much too long 8 month wait until he can come home.  We pray for him daily and are eagerly awaiting a new video and photos which we hope to receive before Thanksgiving!!!

We haven't been up to much around here, and I'm finding we are inside more and more as the temperature starts to drop.  We did spend some time outside the other night though...Matthew "helped" Daddy rake the leaves...while I "supervised" :)

I love these quiet days, with no major crisis, with time to learn to cook (I must say I impressed myself with dinner tonight!), time to knit and play on the floor with Matthew.  I feel like I'm finally taking a deep breath and for the moment, life is easy.  I know with certainty it will not always be like this, so I am savoring every moment and enjoying each and every minute :)

Full of Surprises

This little boy has surprised me from day one.

We expected screaming and terror.  We got a little bit of that, but mostly we got a happy, mellow baby who adjusted really quickly.

We kept waiting for the "honeymoon" phase to end, but it never did.

He really is just happy and mellow.

We decided this week to move him from his crib to a toddler bed.  Pretty soon an awesome train table will be making its way into his bedroom and we thought we'd try to get him settled in his bed before then.  Plus, we wanted to make the move while he was healthy and sleeping well...and after a full year, we finally have both of those things happening at the same time! 

I expected it to go pretty well, considering how well he goes to sleep and how easygoing he is.  But part of me still wondered - would this be our first battle?  Would we see a new side of him, a stubborn side perhaps?

Nope!  I thought the first time night might have been a fluke, but it's been four nights and four naps in his toddler bed with no fussing, no escape attempts - he's only sat up in bed twice!  

That's just him.  As long as he's not sick or teething, he's happy.

Here's to hoping he stays that way!!!!

Wordless Wednesday {Trampoline Fun}

New Friends

Last week I was so blessed to meet some new friends.  I met three wonderful ladies who I had previously only known through blogs (which, don't worry, is not as creepy as it sounds!!!).  All three also have little boys from South Korea so we already had a common bond.  I was so happy to start some new friendships and to find some more South Korean buddies for Matthew!  

We were thrilled to meet Josiah and Rachel on Wednesday (and blessed to share the time with another dear friend, Wendi).  Matthew and Josiah were so adorable together and we had a great time chatting and getting to know each other.  We probably should have done picture time with some less interesting props!  I could not get Matthew to look at the camera for anything!

And if I thought it was hard getting two little boys

to look at the camera,

I soon learned that it is virtually impossible

to get four boys

all under the age of 3

to all look at the camera

at the same time!!!!

Oh well, I suppose 2 out of 4 looking is pretty good :)

Matthew and I took a little trip on Friday to a beautiful park (one that we will most definitely be visiting again) to meet Abby and Sara and their adorable kids.

I am so thankful for my new friends Rachel, Abby, and Sara!